Can you share an experience with someone else while still maintaining your core relationship with your partner?
You desire to please them, want them to be happy and yet can you share them with another to bring them that happiness? Or is it simply too good to be true?
Humans at our core are animals just like any other species and by in large monogamy is a difficult ideal to uphold. After all we are genetically coded to spread our genes, but is it healthy to open your bed to another partner or even several?
What does the search for a potential play mate do to your partner? How do you navigate the mines and pitfalls of such a situation? Can you truly have your cake and eat it too? Or is it all too good to be true?
One of the things I tell people when they ask me about writing is how challenging it can be not to have a tangible product. You see all my books are electronic. This limits how you do things like a launch party or book signing.
I’ve been searching for fun and creative ways to promote and market my book from things like blog tours to fun give away items like personalized screen cleaners.
They say you have to spend money to make money. Do you think this is true? What would you want to see in the way of promoting an e-book?
Do you have experience with these types of promotions?
I’ve found the e-reader vs paper copy debate is alive and well. There still seems to be a stigma when it comes to e-books.
What have you found in your experience?
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Should I kill my character? I’ve seen this question a lot lately and even a writing prompt about killing a character. We all know authors who do it. Some are even our favourite authors. Some authors do it A LOT. (I’m looking at you George R. R. Martin)
Should only the bad guys die? Should your beloved protagonist die to motivate the other characters? I’ve given this considerable thought, here’s my take.
No not only the bad guy should die and yes sometimes the protagonist should die to motivate the other characters to action. Some of you are screaming as you read this, but wait there’s a catch.
Every death no matter how big or how small should provide a pay off for your reader. After all they are the voyeur in your characters lives. As an author everything we do we do for them.
So don’t just kill your character for the sake of it. Think not only what it does to the other characters in the story, but also the pay off for your reader. Every death should be satisfying in some way.
You’re reading a new novel whether it’s an e-book or paperback novel and you come to a point in the book where it dawns on you that there is too much story left to tell and too few pages left to tell it in.
Your book is going to end in a cliffhanger. How do you feel? What do you do? Well if you’re anything like me on this particular evening I threw my e-reader aside and gave up on the book. After two cliffhanger endings I found that not only did the book not end here with a happy ending but went on for another three books. It was also made worse by the fact that the characters were changing between the books ending up with different personality traits than they’d acquired in the last book and reverting in progress and character growth that they had made.
It got me thinking though that in recent years this has been a trend among publisher especially in romance. So much so that submission calls now say must have HAE or HAE for now ending.
I suppose from an author stand point this makes sense financially. Find success with your first book and readers are compelled to read your second, and although I understand the reasoning behind it let me tell you I hate it.
I hate it both as an author and a reader. I would much rather see an element of the story that can carry into an new book. Something that propels the story forward naturally rather than something that can feel artificial.
Now that’s not to say that all cliffhanger endings are done poorly there can be success but is it really necessary?
Instead could the next book pick up where the last left off? Or baring that at some point down the road?
Do people enjoy this style of reading or has it just become a normality in the writing world?
What do you prefer as a writer or reader?
It’s only April but already this year has been a struggle for me. Why? Some would chalk it up to time management. In addition to writing I also have many other interests and it’s been a challenge to give each interest it’s dedicated time, but I try.
People always ask me how do you find time for writing. See like most I live a busy lifestyle. I work a full time job in addition to writing, and I have a multitude of hobbies. (Writing is not a hobby please be mindful of this when speaking to writer.)
This question always stumps me because the truth is I don’t know how I “find” time for writing. Just like I don’t know where my ideas come from. The truth is a lot of the time the ideas are just there.
Of course I go through periods where I don’t write as much or as often as I like, and there are times when I struggle with the logistics of my novels, but for the most part writing is just an extension of my being I equate it to having an third arm it’s always been there and has served me well. If damaged or suddenly gone I would suffer and function differently.
I have to tip my hat to everyone writing or with multiple jobs who are also raising families. I don’t know how they find the super human strength it must take to juggle their schedules.
My big secret….
I make time.
Time isn’t found it’s sacrificed. It’s stolen from other areas like family time or sleep. The real challenge comes in balancing everything. Picture here a plate spinner with several items in the air. That being said the new challenge I’ve given myself is to steal time for myself not because it’s trendy but because it’s necessary. So I’ve vowed to take time for myself even if that feels unproductive or selfish. Wish me luck…
what do you “steal” time for?